God Keeps Surprising Us!

Verily, verily, I say unto you, ye are little children, and ye have not as yet understood . . .

What is it we haven’t understood? What is it that we need to know but have failed to … Read more

Stories Bind Hearts Across Generations

The common ancestor history focuses on basic facts—names, dates, and places. “Leslie Price Thacker was born the 9th of September 1898 in Charleston, Utah to Frederick Albert Thacker and Sarah Jane Price Thacker.” Such histories may … Read more

A Change of Heart in Relationships

When we suffer distress in relationships—especially marriage—we instinctively search for the problems that cause our distress. Almost always we discover defects in the other person. Then we create a story in which that person has some lifelong … Read more

The Path to Marital Success is Different from What We Expected

We expect a lot from marriage. We expect it to provide enduring friendship, vibrant romance, and beautiful children in the bargain. We assume our marriage will give us a continuing sense of fulfillment and contentment. We anticipate heading off into … Read more

The Relationship Books that Change Everything

Recently, I shared some ideas from some of my favorite relationship books with a friend. He seemed quite amazed by the many, rich insights! He asked me to share my list of all-time favorite books that deal with family relationships … Read more