Breathe Deeply The Soft-Spoken Parent

A man was guiding several youngsters through the exhibits in a museum. He was obviously impatient with their side trips and slow pace. Finally, he blurted out, “Hurry up! If you stop to look at stuff, we … Read more

Is Life a Test or an Internship?

Latter-day Saints often say that the purposes of mortal life are to receive a body and to be tested. For anyone who suffers from test anxiety, that is not good news.

Certainly, mortality includes testing. But I … Read more

Listen to Their Hearts: The Soft-Spoken Parent

When our children struggle with pain and disappointment, we are often tempted to jump in with advice. We may also investigate, correct, lecture, or even get angry about the choices that contributed to their trouble.

There is … Read more

The Counsel of Recent Church Leaders’ about Anger

Soft-Spoken Parenting

Our culture often models anger as if it were righteous indignation. But the Lord and His servants consistently condemn anger. It is the enemy of righteousness, holiness, godliness. Consider carefully a few words of counsel … Read more

The Counsel of Early Church Leaders’ about Anger

Soft-Spoken Parenting

The counsel of Church leaders has consistently encouraged us to avoid anger. Consider their words.

Joseph Smith

All the religious world is boasting of righteousness: It is the doctrine of the devil to retard the … Read more

Better and Poorer Kinds of Guidance in Parenting

One evening a mother was busily preparing a birthday party for one of her adult friends. Unfortunately, she had not figured out how to manage her young children while getting the party ready. She was overwhelmed with … Read more

Godly Parenting: Honoring Both Justice and Mercy

Latter-day Saints have a unique view of law. For us, law is not a quirky and mysterious invention God uses to test His creation. Rather we understand that law governs the universe, and God Himself obeys it. … Read more

More About Nurturing Children

When I was a high school teacher, one of my students came to me after class and told me how he loved to go up to a nearby reservoir, crawl through the marsh, and watch the ducks.  … Read more

Kinds of Compassion in Parenting

Sara is the youngest of our three children. She was always more cautious than Emily or Andy. I don’t know why. We never deliberately tricked or deceived her. She was just more cautious. In fact, she was … Read more