“Blame It on the Rain”: A Shift in Your Parenting Mindset

Several years ago, two dear friends called me from a distant city. Their voices betrayed their exhaustion.

“We’ve had trouble with Breck lately. We don’t know what to do. We’re desperate. Will you help us?”

The weary … Read more

Make Sure Your Actions Match Your Words

Children learn the meaning of our words by connecting them to our actions. When our words and actions don’t match, children learn to believe our actions and discount our words.

Imagine that you’re getting the family ready … Read more

Be on the Same Team

Have you ever noticed how quickly a child can become “the problem”?

Maybe one child is slow getting ready for school. Another leaves things everywhere. One argues. One forgets. One seems to push exactly the button that … Read more