The Soft-Spoken Parent: Choose Peace

God teaches surprising lessons about dealing with injustice. After suffering terrible injustices, Joseph Smith cried out to Heaven for vengeance on the Missourians: “Let thine anger be kindled against our enemies; and, in the fury of thine … Read more

Listen to Their Hearts: The Soft-Spoken Parent

When our children struggle with pain and disappointment, we are often tempted to jump in with advice. We may also investigate, correct, lecture, or even get angry about the choices that contributed to their trouble.

There is … Read more

The Soft-Spoken Parent: Look on Them with Compassion

When children behave badly, we often see defiance, carelessness, or selfishness. Compassion invites us to look deeper. Their difficult behavior may be the outward sign of confusion, fear, discouragement, fatigue, or pain. Compassion does not ignore a … Read more

The Soft-Spoken Parent: Look into the Child’s Heart

We often judge children’s behavior by its effect on us rather than by the intention in their hearts. If their actions—or inactions—irritate us, we may assume they are malicious, careless, or irresponsible.

Blaming children for every irritation … Read more