The Soft-Spoken Parent: Look into the Child’s Heart

We often judge children’s behavior by its effect on us rather than by the intention in their hearts. If their actions—or inactions—irritate us, we may assume they are malicious, careless, or irresponsible.

Blaming children for every irritation … Read more

The Soft-Spoken Parent: Saying No to Anger and Yes to Laughter

Every parent knows the moment: irritation rises, words gather force, and we stand at the edge of saying something we may regret. In this series, I have offered religious and research reasons to resist anger. I have … Read more