Putting the Parenting Principles Together

Dear and wise friends were struggling with their 4-year-old son who liked to scandalize his older sisters by occasionally spouting the word “poopy.” This was an especially big problem since the girls were so earnest about doing … Read more

Better and Poorer Kinds of Guidance in Parenting

One evening a mother was busily preparing a birthday party for one of her adult friends. Unfortunately, she had not figured out how to manage her young children while getting the party ready. She was overwhelmed with … Read more

More About Nurturing Children

When I was a high school teacher, one of my students came to me after class and told me how he loved to go up to a nearby reservoir, crawl through the marsh, and watch the ducks.  … Read more

Having Compassion for Humanness

Flora, age six, complained that “lately” she had been receiving fewer presents than her brother.  Her mother did not deny the complaint. Neither did she explain to Flora that her brother was older and so deserved more. … Read more

Kinds of Compassion in Parenting

Sara is the youngest of our three children. She was always more cautious than Emily or Andy. I don’t know why. We never deliberately tricked or deceived her. She was just more cautious. In fact, she was … Read more