Just Listen

The Soft-Spoken Parent

Most of us are like writers of fiction. We take our life experiences and weave them into stories. But our stories are never entirely objective. We write to make a point. We color every … Read more

Breathe Deeply The Soft-Spoken Parent

A man was guiding several youngsters through the exhibits in a museum. He was obviously impatient with their side trips and slow pace. Finally, he blurted out, “Hurry up! If you stop to look at stuff, we … Read more

Take a Mental Vacation

The Soft-Spoken Parent

When something bothers us, we humans often choose anger. We rehearse the offense, build our case, and gather evidence for the prosecution. Anger can even feel energizing. Something is wrong! Someone needs to do … Read more

Reprove Betimes with Sharpness: The Soft-Spoken Parent

When we are inclined to justify our anger at our children, we may point to the scriptural directive: “Reproving betimes with sharpness, when moved upon by the Holy Ghost” (Doctrine and Covenants 121:43).

There it is: sharpness!… Read more